This year I learned more than ever that my words matter. I may have lost some things due to my inability to express what I wanted or felt. Though I may not lose those things forever, I vow never to repeat the same mistake. I have to be honest, transparent, and open. Words matter, and I will use them to speak life.
Fear
One of the reasons I did not speak was fear of rejection. I did not want to be embarrassed or ashamed of what I said. How can I get what God has promised me if I am afraid to say it? So, I made up my mind to be honest with myself, God, and those with who I am in a relationship. I can only overcome by my testimony if I tell it.
Validity
Feelings are not facts. Feelings can be based on so many things other than the facts of the present circumstances. Feelings will filter through our past experiences, hurt, or excitement. So, it may take some time to pinpoint what we feel. Examining our emotions helps us be honest and share what we mean with clarity and focus. No matter what we think, our feelings are valid. We shouldn’t compare ourselves to anyone or another situation. We deserve to say what we feel in a way that honors our thoughts.
Overcome
Words have power. We must rely on God’s wisdom and discernment to ensure we say what we mean and want. What do you want? Have you thought about what you require? What will it take to get the life God promised? Speak those things once discovered. Write your wants and needs out, so they are plain. Pray so that God will give you the desires of your heart. Start to speak life into the God-given visions until they manifest. Our words are powerful—words matter.
And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony, and they loved not their lives unto the death.
Revelations 12:11